understanding sex appeal & how to increase it

Summary

This video script delves into the abstract concept of sex appeal, suggesting it's easier defined by its absence. It proposes that sex appeal is the instinctive attraction triggered by a synergy of appearance, energy, and personality. The script refutes the idea that fixing unappealing traits automatically grants sex appeal, instead suggesting it merely allows entry into the 'arena' of attractiveness. It highlights factors like sexual dimorphism, assertiveness, status, and niche affiliation as influential, while cautioning against extremes and advocating for a balanced approach to enhance one's sex appeal.

Takeaways

• 🔍 Sex appeal is an abstract and subjective concept that varies across different cultures and individuals.
• 💡 The speaker defines sex appeal as a combination of appearance, energy, status, and personality that triggers an instinctive attraction.
• 🤔 The opposite of sex appeal can be identified more easily than what it is, with poor hygiene and lack of confidence being unappealing traits.
• 💪 Sexual dimorphism, or features that differentiate the sexes, plays a role in attractiveness but can have diminishing returns if too pronounced.
• 👤 The 'Rate by Fresh' app uses AI to analyze facial features for masculinity or femininity and their place on the sexual dimorphism scale.
• 🚫 Assertiveness is a key trait in sexual attractiveness, but it should be balanced to avoid aggression and intimidation.
• 🛡 A man's ability to stand up for himself and maintain boundaries is more appealing than being 'neutered' or overly passive.
• 🏆 Status, beyond just fame and wealth, can be enhanced by behaviors like intelligence, a good job, and humor, and it significantly impacts sex appeal.
• 🌐 Belonging to a specific subculture or 'niche' can both positively and negatively affect sex appeal, making one polarizing.
• 🎨 Niche maxing should align with one's natural style and subculture to avoid appearing as a 'poser' and being unappealing.
• 📈 The video suggests that understanding and applying the discussed concepts can help boost one's sex appeal, though it's not an exact science.

Q & A

What is the abstract subject discussed in the video script?

The abstract subject discussed in the video script is 'sex appeal'.

Why is sex appeal considered an abstract and elusive concept?

Sex appeal is considered abstract and elusive because it is subjective and context-dependent, varying from person to person and culture to culture.

What is the narrator's approach to defining sex appeal?

The narrator suggests defining sex appeal by what it is not, rather than what it is, due to its inherent subjectivity and context-dependency.

According to the narrator, what are the elements that contribute to a person's sex appeal?

The elements that contribute to a person's sex appeal include their appearance, energy status, and personality, which together trigger an instinctive and primal attraction in others.

What does the narrator use as an example to illustrate what is sexually unappealing?

The narrator uses memes making fun of the typical Reddit SL Discord mod as an example to illustrate what is sexually unappealing.

What are some traits that the narrator identifies as making the archetype of the Reddit SL Discord mod unappealing?

Traits that make this archetype unappealing include poor hygiene, lack of confidence, social awkwardness, a false sense of superiority, and a sedentary lifestyle.

What is the term 'sexual dimorphism' as used in the script, and how does it relate to sex appeal?

Sexual dimorphism refers to features that differentiate males from females. In the context of sex appeal, more pronounced sexual dimorphism features are generally deemed more attractive.

What is the 'dimorphism' feature in the Rate by Fresh app, and how can it be accessed?

The 'dimorphism' feature in the Rate by Fresh app uses AI to scan a person's face to determine if their features are more masculine or feminine and where they fall on the sexual dimorphism scale. It can be accessed by visiting ratebyfresh.com or clicking the link in the video description.

Why is assertiveness considered a significant predictor of sexual attractiveness according to the video script?

Assertiveness is considered a significant predictor of sexual attractiveness because it indicates a person who won't tolerate disrespect or boundary crossing, which is an appealing trait in potential partners.

What is the role of 'status' in determining a person's sex appeal as discussed in the script?

Status, as discussed in the script, is more than just social fame or wealth. It involves a person's perceived capabilities, discipline, and leadership, which can significantly enhance their sex appeal.

What is 'Niche maxing' and how can it affect a person's sex appeal?

Niche maxing refers to the practice of aligning oneself with a specific subculture or niche. It can have a polarizing effect on sex appeal, attracting some people while repelling others, depending on the niche and how well it fits the individual's natural style.

What advice does the narrator give about embracing a niche to enhance one's sex appeal?

The narrator advises that if one decides to niche max, it should align naturally with their style and subculture, and not be forced, as being a 'poser' is unappealing.

How does the narrator conclude the discussion on sex appeal in the video script?

The narrator concludes by stating that while the knowledge from the video can help direct one towards having more sex appeal, it's not a sure science and encourages viewers to check out the Rate by Fresh app and subscribe to the channel.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 Defining Sex Appeal: Subjectivity and Context

The first paragraph explores the abstract nature of sex appeal, suggesting that it's easier to define by what it's not rather than what it is due to its subjective and context-dependent nature. The speaker proposes a personal definition of sex appeal as an instinctive and primal attraction triggered by a person's appearance, energy, and personality. The paragraph also humorously uses a stereotype of an unappealing 'Reddit SL Discord mod' to illustrate what is considered unattractive, listing traits such as poor hygiene, lack of confidence, and a sedentary lifestyle. It emphasizes that while fixing these issues is necessary, it does not guarantee sex appeal but allows one to 'enter the arena' of being potentially attractive.

05:01

💪 Enhancing Sex Appeal: Traits and Techniques

The second paragraph delves into specific ways to enhance sex appeal, starting with the concept of sexual dimorphism, which refers to features that differentiate males from females. It suggests that pronounced dimorphic features are generally more attractive but warns of diminishing returns, using the example of height and muscularity. The paragraph also introduces the 'Rate by Fresh' app's dimorphism feature, which uses AI to analyze facial features for masculinity or femininity. It continues with the importance of assertiveness as a key trait, differentiating it from aggression, and highlights the impact of status, which is more than just fame or wealth but also includes behaviors and associations that influence perception. Lastly, the paragraph touches on the impact of niche subcultures on sex appeal, noting that while niche maxing can be beneficial, it should align with one's natural style to avoid being perceived as a 'poser'.

Keywords

💡Sex Appeal

Sex appeal refers to the quality that makes someone sexually attractive to others. It is subjective and varies greatly depending on cultural and individual preferences. In the video, sex appeal is defined as an instinctive and primal attraction triggered by a combination of appearance, energy, status, and personality, and is contrasted with behaviors that are considered unappealing, such as poor hygiene and a lack of confidence.

💡Subjective

Subjective indicates something that is based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions. In the context of the video, the concept of sex appeal is described as subjective because what one person finds attractive may not be the same for another, highlighting the individual nature of attraction.

💡Sexual Dimorphism

Sexual dimorphism is a biological term referring to the physical differences between males and females of a species. The video uses this term to discuss the attractiveness of pronounced gender-specific features, such as height in men, but also notes the concept of diminishing returns where extreme versions of these traits can become unappealing.

💡Assertiveness

Assertiveness is the ability to stand up for oneself and express one's thoughts, feelings, and beliefs in an open, honest, and direct way without being aggressive. The video suggests that assertiveness is a key trait in sexual attractiveness, as it signals confidence and the ability to maintain personal boundaries.

💡Status

Status, in the context of the video, refers to an individual's social standing or rank, which can be influenced by various factors such as occupation, intelligence, and reputation. It is presented as a significant factor in sexual attractiveness, as it can associate a person with positive traits like leadership and capability.

💡Niche

A niche, in the video, refers to a specific subculture or group that an individual identifies with. Belonging to a niche can enhance one's sex appeal by aligning with a particular style or subculture, but it can also polarize opinion, making one very appealing to some while unappealing to others.

💡Unappealing

Unappealing describes qualities or characteristics that are not attractive or pleasing. The video uses this term to describe behaviors and traits that detract from an individual's sex appeal, such as social awkwardness, a false sense of superiority, and a sedentary lifestyle.

💡Personal Integrity

Personal integrity refers to the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles. In the video, maintaining personal integrity is linked to sexual attractiveness, as it involves respecting oneself and others without crossing into aggressiveness.

💡Confidence

Confidence is a belief in one's own abilities and qualities. The video suggests that confidence is an attractive trait because it can indicate self-assurance and the ability to handle various social situations effectively.

💡Unpredictability

Unpredictability, as discussed in the video, is the quality of not being easily anticipated or foreseen. It is presented as an attractive trait because it keeps individuals from being boring and adds an element of intrigue to their personality.

💡Rate by Fresh App

The Rate by Fresh App is mentioned in the video as a tool that uses AI to analyze facial features and determine an individual's sexual dimorphism. It is used as an example of a modern approach to understanding and potentially enhancing one's sex appeal.

Highlights

Sex appeal is an abstract and subjective concept that varies with cultural context.

Sex appeal can be better defined by what it is not, rather than what it is.

The synergy of appearance, energy, status, and personality can trigger an instinctive attraction.

Unappealing traits such as poor hygiene and lack of confidence can hinder sex appeal.

Sexual dimorphism, or features that differentiate males from females, plays a role in attractiveness.

Extremes in sexual dimorphism, such as excessive height or muscle mass, can become unappealing.

The Rate by Fresh app uses AI to analyze facial features for sexual dimorphism.

Assertiveness is a key trait in sexual attractiveness, but aggression can be off-putting.

Status, beyond just fame or wealth, can significantly impact sex appeal.

Intelligence, job status, and humor are factors that can enhance one's status and sex appeal.

Belonging to a subculture or niche can polarize perceptions of sex appeal.

Niche maxing can be beneficial if it aligns with one's natural style and subculture.

Being a 'poser' by adopting a subculture that doesn't suit you can be unappealing.

The video provides insights to potentially increase sex appeal, though it's not a guaranteed science.

Encouragement to check out the Rate by Fresh app and subscribe to the channel for more content.

Transcripts

do you know what sex appeal is it's such

an abstract subject that whenever I

think I have a working definition and I

try to grab on to it it disappears like

smoke after thinking about this for a

very long time I came to the conclusion

that it's easier to Define sex appeal by

what it's not rather than what it is

that's because inherently sex appeal is

subjective and context dependent what

one person finds appealing in one

country another one can find grotesque

but first what do we even mean when we

say something as sex appeal my

definition of sex appeal is when a

person based on the Synergy of their

appearance energy status and personality

triggers an instinctive and Primal

attraction in others I definitely don't

mean for this section to be mean but if

we're being real when I think of what is

extremely sexually unappealing I think

of memes making fun of the typical

Reddit SL Discord mod this is basically

the anchor I use to determine what is

sexually unappealing it's obviously not

scientifically rigorous in any way but I

feel like it's a good barometer what

makes this archetype so unappealing

there are a few things poor hygiene lack

of confidence social awkwardness false

sense of superiority and a sedentary

lifestyle but is the opposite of all

these things what give someone sex

appeal I don't think so these are

basically barriers in place that

potentially Gat keeps you from having

sex appeal but fixing them doesn't give

you sex appeal it just lets you enter

the arena in this video we get a lot of

useful information that will help you

boost your sex appeal number one sexual

dimorphism in a very basic sense sexual

dimorphism means features that

differentiates males from females the

more pronounced these features are

generally the more attractive someone is

deemed for example men are usually

taller than women so if a guy is really

tall he's very sexually dimorphic but as

with all things there's dimin returns

while a 61 guy might be very appealing a

7 foot guy is so out of the norm that he

enters a weird territory of unappealing

it's basically horse true theory this is

pretty true for a lot of things we

consider masculine or sexually dimorphic

being strong and muscular is generally

seen as attractive and highly dimorphic

but a bodybuilder that's 300 lb of pure

muscle is so off the scale that they're

generally only attractive to a niche

select group of people on the rate by

fresh app there's a feature called

dimorphism what it does is use AI to

scan your face to determine if your

features are more masculine or feminine

and where you fall on the sexual

dimorphism scale it's a super cool

feature if you want to check it out go

to Rap by fresh.com or go to the link in

the description to check it out number

two dangerous one of the most sexually

unappealing traits a man can have is

being neutered and afraid to stand up

for himself whether it's lovers friends

or strangers in life people are always

consciously and subconsciously testing

each other's boundaries to see how much

they can get away with a sexually

appealing man has an air to him that

lets people know he won't take

disrespect or crossing of his boundaries

kindly in fact research supports that

among personality traits and physical

fitness indicators assertiveness is one

of the biggest predictors of the number

of Partners someone has this means that

a assertiveness has a huge impact on

sexual attractiveness bad boys and Mafia

bosses are some of the most common

themes in romance novels exactly because

they exhibit this trait often to an

extreme degree now don't get it wrong

and think this means starting a fight

with every guy that looks at you the

wrong way just like our example with a s

foot guy taking things too far and going

from assertiveness and confident to

aggression and intimidation will just

land you in trouble guys with this trait

turned up too high are what fills up our

prisons after all you need to hit that

sweet spot of assertiveness confidence

and unpredictability this splend not

only keeps you from being predictable

and boring but also commands respect and

maintains your personal Integrity

without Crossing into aggressiveness

number three status when I say status

most guys think of a rich celebrity or

influencer this is an example of social

status but I think it's a very surface

level view of status we all have some

sort of status and it changes all the

time status is much more than just

having clout and fame for The Regular

Guy those things aren't really

applicable at all if you saw a dorky

looking guy walking down the street you

wouldn't think much of it but if I told

you he was a Navy SEAL you'd

automatically have a different view of

him this is the power of status you

associate being a Navy SEAL with a

variety of traits like being capable

dangerous disciplined and a leader which

completely repaints your view of the

same person there's a ton of different

behaviors that either enhance or

decrease your status according to

research things like being intelligent

having a well-paying job and having a

good sense of humor raises your status

while things like being lazy having poor

hygiene and being unreliable lowers your

status in terms of things that can

affect your sex appeal and

attractiveness at say status is one of

the most overpowered number four your

Niche the kind of subculture and Niche

that you adhere to can significantly

affect your sex appeal in both a

negative and and positive way in some

circles this concept is called Niche

maxing there's a million and one

different niches there's nerdy gamer

guys roadmen Country Boys alt guys

athletes dreadheads you get the point

belonging to a niche can have a hugely

positive impact on your sex appeal but

it comes at a cost you'll be very

polarizing in that the types of people

that are into you will really love you

but some others will find you completely

unappealing overall if you if you decide

to Niche Max it should be in a way that

aligns naturally with a style and

subculture that works with the kind of

person that you are if you don't

skateboard don't dress like a skater

this is called being a poser and is

hugely unappealing overall if you taking

the knowledge from this video it can

help direct you towards having more sex

appeal but it's not 100% sure science

with that said make sure to check out

the rate by fresh app And subscribe to

our Channel thanks for watching