8 Clear Signs You’re a Highly Attractive Man (Even If You Dont Think So)

Summary

In this video, the host introduces six subtle tests to help men assess their attractiveness, using scientific principles and real-life applications. The tests range from observing body language, like directional body sway and mirrored movements, to assessing reactions in social situations, such as eye contact, storytelling, and proximity. The tests also include more personal assessments like facial symmetry and laser hair removal. The video emphasizes that often, attraction is more about subtle cues than overt compliments, and these tests reveal how attractive you truly are, even if others don't vocalize it.

Takeaways

• 😀 Test #1: The Silent Dance Test – If a girl subtly mirrors your body movements, like leaning in or shifting her weight, it’s a sign of attraction. This is called 'directional body sway coupling.'
• 😀 Test #2: The Boring Story Test – If people let you finish a mundane story without interruption, it’s a sign that they find you attractive. Attractive people are often given more social space.
• 😀 Test #3: The At-Home Mirror Test – To see if you have attractive features, check your cheekbones, facial symmetry, and the appearance of veins in your forearms. High cheekbones and balanced facial features are linked to attractiveness.
• 😀 Test #4: The 3-Second Eye Contact Test – If a girl blushes, smiles, or breaks eye contact after 3 seconds of direct eye contact, it’s a sign that she finds you attractive.
• 😀 Test #5: The Flinch Test – If a girl leans in when you subtly step closer, it means she finds you attractive. If she flinches or pulls back, it’s a sign that she doesn't.
• 😀 Test #6: The Halo Effect – Attractive people are often treated better, receiving lighter penalties from authority figures or more lenient responses in social situations, like mispronouncing someone’s name.
• 😀 Directional body sway and mirroring body movements, like shifting weight or tilting the head, are subconscious signals of romantic attraction.
• 😀 Symmetry plays a significant role in physical attractiveness. Men with balanced facial features and clear skin are seen as more attractive.
• 😀 Attractive people are often allowed to speak longer or uninterrupted, even when their stories are not interesting, due to social biases favoring them.
• 😀 Laser hair removal is suggested as a way to enhance facial symmetry and maintain smooth skin, which contributes to overall attractiveness.

Q & A

What is the 'silent dance test' and how does it relate to attraction?

The 'silent dance test' is a method of observing subtle body movements between two people to gauge attraction. It focuses on 'directional body sway coupling', where people attracted to each other naturally sway in sync without noticing. If a girl mirrors your movements—like shifting her weight when you do or leaning in when you do—it’s a sign she finds you attractive.

How can I use body movements to test attraction with a girl?

You can run a three-part test by observing if a girl mirrors your body movements. First, shift your upper body slightly forward. Second, shift your weight from one foot to the other. Third, tilt your head slightly. If she mirrors any of these actions, it’s a sign of attraction.

Why do attractive people seem to get more social space and attention?

Attractive people often receive more social space and attention because of a subconscious bias. People tend to give attractive individuals more space to speak, assuming their words or presence will be interesting or valuable, even if the content is mundane or boring.

What does the 'boring story test' reveal about attraction?

The 'boring story test' shows how people react when an attractive person speaks, even when the story itself is unremarkable. If people listen attentively, don't interrupt, and let you finish, it suggests they find you attractive. Attractive people are often treated with more patience and attention during conversations.

What is the 'at home mirror test' and what does it measure?

The 'at home mirror test' is a quick self-assessment you can do in front of a mirror to check your facial symmetry and features. It involves three parts: checking your cheekbones, testing your facial symmetry using a flipped mirror image, and observing your forearms for visible veins (which indicate physical strength).

How do high cheekbones contribute to attractiveness?

High, prominent cheekbones are associated with a more sculpted, sharp look that enhances facial symmetry. This feature creates natural shadows on your face, contributing to a more defined and appealing appearance.

Why is symmetry important in attractiveness?

Facial symmetry is a key indicator of attractiveness because it is subconsciously associated with health and genetic fitness. When a person's face is symmetrical, it often suggests they have balanced physical traits, which is seen as more appealing.

What role does physical fitness, specifically forearm muscles, play in attractiveness?

Strong forearms and visible veins can signal physical strength, which is a trait many people find attractive. A 2017 study showed that strength, rather than height or leanness, is the most important physical attribute for many women when determining attractiveness.

How does laser hair removal relate to improving facial appearance?

Laser hair removal helps enhance facial features by eliminating facial hair, making the skin smoother and more defined. By removing hair in areas like the cheekbones and neck, the bone structure becomes more visible, which enhances facial symmetry and sharpness.

What is the '3-second eye contact test' and what does it indicate?

The '3-second eye contact test' involves making eye contact with someone for three seconds during a conversation. If the person blushes, smiles, or looks away, it’s a sign they are attracted to you. If they maintain a neutral expression and don’t react, it may indicate a lack of attraction.