How to understand WOMEN

Summary

In this humorous video script, 'Rizz 101 class' instructor Jinny decodes 'women's language' for an audience, highlighting common phrases like 'I'm fine' and 'Do I look fat?' and their potential meanings. She advises that 'I'm fine' often means 'not fine' and emphasizes the importance of attention and sincerity in responses. Jinny also covers scenarios like food offers, time estimates, and compliments, suggesting that women may seek emotional support rather than solutions. The script humorously points out the nuances in communication between genders.

Takeaways

• 😐 'I'm fine' usually means the opposite and requires further attention or questioning.
• 🍨 When asked if they want ice cream, it's a tricky situation and often means they do want it, but also want to share the indulgence.
• 👗 If asked 'Do I look fat?', the answer should be an immediate and sincere 'no', often accompanied by a compliment.
• 🕒 Saying 'I'll be ready in five minutes' is often not literal and should be taken with a grain of salt, adding extra time is advisable.
• 😕 A clear 'yes' or 'no' can be confusing and context is key to understanding the actual sentiment behind the words.
• 🍔 Even if she says 'no' to food, it's often expected that you'll still offer or bring food for her.
• 👫 When a woman talks about problems, she's often seeking emotional support and agreement, not solutions.
• 🚶‍♀️ Complimenting another woman in front of your partner is a minefield; it's safer to avoid direct answers and focus on your partner.
• 💔 Saying 'I don't want to ruin our friendship' is often a polite way of saying she's not interested in a romantic relationship.
• ⏰ If a woman takes a long time to reply, it's a sign that she may not be very interested.
• 🍽️ When she says 'whatever' about food, it means she's unsure and would like options to choose from.

Q & A

What does it mean when a woman says 'I'm fine' after being asked if she's okay?

It typically means she is not fine and may require more attention or reassurance. The tone of her voice often provides clues; if it's flat or sounds unconvincing, she likely needs further support.

What is the implication when a woman asks if you want to eat ice cream?

It usually means she wants ice cream and would appreciate it if you both shared the treat. Even if she initially says no, it's often expected that you would still offer to get it for her.

How should you respond when a woman asks, 'Do I look fat?'

The correct response is an immediate and sincere 'no', often accompanied by a compliment. Any hesitation or perceived insincerity can be problematic.

What does a woman mean when she says she'll be ready in five minutes?

It's a common understanding that 'five minutes' can often mean closer to thirty minutes. It's a rough estimate and can vary from woman to woman.

What does a woman mean when she says 'yes' or 'no' ambiguously?

The meaning can be quite literal, but context is key. For example, if she says 'no' when asked if she's mad, she might actually be. If she says 'yeah' to going out with friends, it might mean she's not happy about it.

What should you do if a woman says she's going to grab something to eat and asks if you want anything?

You should always offer to get her food as well, even if she says no. It's likely that she hasn't decided what she wants yet and would appreciate the consideration.

How should a man respond when a woman talks about her problems and seeks emotional support?

The man should listen, empathize, and be supportive rather than trying to solve the problem or offer logical solutions. Women often just want to be heard and feel understood.

What does it mean if a woman comments on another woman's attractiveness while you're walking together?

If she asks if you noticed another woman's attractiveness, it's a tricky situation. Saying 'yes' can lead to jealousy, while 'no' might seem insincere. The best response could be to act oblivious or to redirect the conversation.

What does it imply if a woman says she doesn't want to ruin the friendship when rejecting romantic advances?

It usually means she's not interested in a romantic relationship but values the friendship. It's a polite way of letting someone down without completely ending the relationship.

How should you interpret a woman's response of 'whatever' or 'anything is fine' when asked about food preferences?

It doesn't mean anything is truly fine. Instead, it's an indication that she's unsure of what she wants and would appreciate if you provided a few options for her to choose from.