How The Law of Attraction and Non-Duality Relate

Summary

In this dialogue, David and Rupert discuss the intersection of the law of attraction and non-dual teachings. Rupert clarifies that while he doesn't often speak on the law of attraction, its core idea of abundance aligns with non-dual concepts of reality's unlimited nature. They explore the tantric path's engagement with manifestation and distinguish between personal and impersonal desires. Personal desires, stemming from a sense of separation, are challenging to fulfill, whereas impersonal desires, rooted in universal qualities like love and peace, align with the universe's reality and are easily fulfilled, enriching both the individual and others.

Takeaways

• 😀 Rupert and David discuss the relationship between the Law of Attraction and non-dual teachings.
• 🌟 David is interested in understanding how the Law of Attraction, which is typically associated with personal empowerment and manifestation, fits into non-dual traditions that often emphasize the illusory nature of the separate self.
• 🗣️ Rupert clarifies that while he doesn't often speak about the Law of Attraction, he acknowledges its emphasis on the abundance and unlimited nature of reality as a valuable concept.
• 🔄 The conversation touches on the idea that our perceived limitations are self-imposed and that the universe reflects back our internal sense of limitation.
• 🧘‍♂️ Rupert suggests that the Law of Attraction could be part of the Tantric path, which is inclusive of manifestation, as opposed to the Vedantic path, which tends to turn away from it.
• 🌱 David mentions that contemplating these ideas has deepened his prayer practice and sense of oneness.
• 💭 The dialogue explores the distinction between personal desires, which arise from a sense of separate self, and impersonal desires, which come from a place of peace, love, and truth.
• 🌐 Rupert explains that impersonal desires, being in line with the universe's nature, are more easily fulfilled and can bring joy both to oneself and others.
• 📚 The conversation was prompted by Rupert's interaction with Rhonda Byrne, author of 'The Secret,' whose latest book includes Rupert and reflects a shift away from the Law of Attraction.
• 🔄 The discussion concludes with a mutual anticipation of Rupert's return to Berkeley and a shared appreciation for their dialogue.

Q & A

What is the main topic of conversation between David and Rupert?

The main topic of conversation is about the law of attraction, non-dual teachings, and how these concepts relate to spiritual paths like tantra and bhakti.

How does Rupert view the law of attraction in relation to non-dual teachings?

Rupert mentions that the law of attraction is not a major part of his teachings, but he acknowledges that it is based on the idea of abundance and the unlimited nature of reality, which aligns with some aspects of non-dual understanding.

Why did Rupert have a conversation with Rhonda Byrne, the author of 'The Secret'?

Rupert had a conversation with Rhonda Byrne because she included him in her latest book, 'The Greatest Secret,' and they became friends through their interactions.

How does Rupert differentiate between personal and impersonal desires?

Rupert explains that personal desires arise from the sense of being a separate self and are often difficult for the universe to fulfill. In contrast, impersonal desires arise from one's true nature, such as love, peace, and truth, and are in harmony with the universe, making them easier to fulfill.

Does Rupert believe the universe reflects personal limitations back to us?

Yes, Rupert suggests that we impose limitations on reality through the narrowness of our vision, and then the universe reflects those limitations back to us, although it is not the universe doing it to us, but rather us doing it to the universe.

How does Rupert describe the difference between the tantric path and the vedantic path?

Rupert describes the tantric path as one that is inclusive of manifestation and engaging with the world, while the vedantic path tends to turn away from manifestation, focusing more inward.

What role does abundance play in the law of attraction according to Rupert?

Abundance plays a key role in the law of attraction, as it is based on the idea that reality, or God's infinite being, is unlimited. Personal limitations arise from the felt sense of separation from this abundance.

How has David's understanding of the law of attraction affected his spiritual practice?

David mentions that his exploration of the law of attraction has deepened his prayer practice and his sense of oneness, helping him to engage with spiritual ideas in a more meaningful way.

Why does Rupert emphasize the distinction between personal and impersonal desires in the context of the law of attraction?

Rupert emphasizes this distinction because impersonal desires, which arise from a place of love, truth, and beauty, are in alignment with the reality of the universe and are more likely to bring fulfillment, unlike personal desires which often conflict with universal truth.

What does Rupert suggest we do when we recognize personal desires within ourselves?

Rupert suggests that when we recognize personal desires, rather than seeking to fulfill them, we should seek the self or the sense of separation on whose behalf those desires arise. This helps align our desires with impersonal, universal truths.