13 Harsh Truths About Men That Women Learn Too Late
Summary
TLDRIn this insightful video, Ismael Gomez, a coach, writer, and speaker, shares 13 harsh realities about men that women often discover too late. He discusses how men's behavior in relationships is influenced by their perception of a woman's value, the impossibility of unconditional love, and the impact of insecurity on men's actions. Gomez also covers topics such as the transformation men undergo with wealth, the tendency to lie about infidelity, and the importance of not losing oneself in a relationship. He emphasizes the need for understanding these truths to avoid disappointment and heartbreak.
Takeaways
- 💎 A man's treatment of you often reflects how he values you, similar to how one would treat a diamond differently from a regular stone.
- 💔 Expecting unconditional love in a romantic relationship can lead to disappointment, as such love is more typical in familial bonds.
- 🚫 Insecure men may try to diminish the qualities that initially attracted them to you, leading to a loss of attraction and a codependent relationship.
- 💼 Wealth can lead to a transformation in men's behavior, often resulting in a shift in their relationship expectations and desires.
- 🤥 Men are often unlikely to admit to infidelity, often resorting to fabrications to avoid responsibility for their actions.
- 🌟 Being 'nice' is not the primary quality men look for in a partner; they value intelligence, humor, shared interests, and physical attraction more.
- 🏠 A man who is well-liked and fun may not necessarily make a great husband, as the qualities needed for a successful marriage differ from those of a good friend.
- 🚶♂️ Men who lack direction in life may not be able to fully commit to a relationship, as they are not driven by their own goals and dreams.
- 🏃♂️ Some men are more interested in the chase and conquest of a relationship rather than the relationship itself, leading to a lack of long-term commitment.
- 🔍 Many men may judge a woman based on her past sexual encounters, which can create friction and toxicity in a relationship.
- 💔 Men can be quick to replace a partner, often without a gradual buildup of dissatisfaction, unlike what is typically seen in female behavior.
- 🎬 Exposure to adult content from a young age can lead to unrealistic expectations in relationships, affecting satisfaction and compatibility.
- 🏃♂️ Men highly value their freedom and independence, often needing to feel that they can leave a relationship to truly commit to it.
Q & A
What is the first harsh reality about men that Ismael Gomez discusses in the video?
-The first harsh reality is that a man will treat you according to the value he sees in you, which means if he perceives you as the most wonderful woman he's ever met, you'll see his dedication and devotion. However, if he seems confused and inconsistent, it's because his intentions with you aren't clear to himself.
Why does Ismael Gomez emphasize that unconditional love is not something to expect from a romantic partner?
-Gomez emphasizes that unconditional love is something that ends up causing a lot of suffering in many women. He suggests that romantic relationships are built on mutual benefits, and expecting unconditional love sets one up for disappointment, as it is more applicable to family or pets.
What does Gomez mean when he says an insecure man will try to 'destroy' the things he loves about you?
-Gomez explains that an insecure man may try to diminish the qualities that attracted him to you in the first place because he fears other men are attracted to the same qualities. This can lead to isolating you and dimming your light, causing you to become codependent and less attractive to him.
Why does Gomez warn about men who transform after achieving wealth?
-Gomez warns that when a man starts making serious money, often in his 40s, he may start receiving attention from women who never noticed him before. This, combined with a midlife crisis, can lead to changes in his behavior and desires, potentially causing him to seek a different kind of partner that fits his new picture of success.
What is the common lie that Gomez says men tell when caught cheating?
-Gomez states that many men will lie about cheating, even when caught in the act. They might claim that they were drugged or that the incident was fabricated using AI, rather than admitting to their actions and taking responsibility.
Why does Gomez argue that being a 'great guy' does not necessarily equate to being a 'great husband'?
-Gomez argues that being a great husband involves more than just being a likable person or fun to be around. It requires qualities like communication skills, the ability to compromise, and a commitment to supporting and nurturing the relationship in ways that go beyond surface-level interactions.
What is the issue with men who have no direction in life according to Gomez?
-Gomez points out that if a man lacks purpose, drive, or passion for his goals and dreams, he cannot be passionate about a partner. A man who is not constructing his life with a clear vision will not appreciate a partner as more than just a source of relaxation.
Why does Gomez suggest that men who intensely chase a woman may not be interested in a relationship?
-Gomez suggests that men who intensely chase a woman are often more interested in the pursuit and conquest than in a relationship. Once they have achieved their goal, they may lose interest and seek to chase someone else.
What is the potential impact of men being 'brainwashed' by x-rated content, as mentioned by Gomez?
-Gomez warns that exposure to x-rated content from an early age can lead to unrealistic expectations about partners. Men may compare their partners to unrealistic standards seen in such content, which can lead to dissatisfaction in relationships.
How does Gomez describe the value of freedom for men in relationships?
-Gomez describes freedom as something that men value above almost everything else. They need to feel that they can leave a relationship if they want to, but they choose to stay because they are captivated and find the relationship worth experiencing until the end.
What advice does Gomez give to women about discussing their past sexual encounters with a partner?
-Gomez advises women to be cautious about revealing explicit details of their past sexual encounters, as this can cause friction in the relationship. He suggests that while honesty is important, there is no need to disclose every detail, especially if it could lead to toxicity or unhealthy dynamics.
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