The #1 way to be the FATHER that she never had - unlock the masculine energy that women love in men!
Summary
TLDRThe video script delves into the profound connection between men and women in long-term relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional depth over physical attraction. It suggests that the key to a lasting bond is to become the 'father figure' many women may have missed, by providing wisdom, setting boundaries, and teaching life lessons. The speaker argues that a woman's respect and attraction to a man are rooted in his ability to say 'no' and not be swayed by her beauty, thus offering a sense of security and maturity that goes beyond superficial attraction.
Takeaways
- 👨👧 The video emphasizes the importance of being a significant male figure in a woman's life, particularly for those who may not have had a strong father figure.
- 💞 Men typically seek the unconditional love they received from their mothers, while women often desire the strength and security associated with their fathers.
- 🚫 The key to being the 'father figure' a woman never had is the ability to say 'no' and establish boundaries, something many women may not have experienced from their own fathers.
- 🧠 Women subconsciously understand that emotions can lead to poor decisions, and they seek a partner who can provide wisdom and guidance, akin to a father's role.
- 🤝 The father figure should treat every circumstance fairly, emphasizing that actions have consequences, which is a form of wisdom and maturity women are looking for in a partner.
- 🛡 A woman will test the boundaries of a relationship to see if a man can provide the protection, wisdom, safety, and security that she seeks, much like a father would.
- 🚫 Saying 'no' is crucial because it demonstrates that a man is not solely driven by a woman's beauty or seductive appeal, but by a deeper sense of right and wrong.
- 👫 In a dating scenario, a woman may refer to her partner as 'daddy' as a way of testing the boundaries and seeking the fatherly qualities she desires.
- 💔 If a man allows himself to be manipulated by a woman's beauty or charm, she may lose respect for him, leading to a loss of desire and potentially ending the relationship.
- 🌟 The video suggests that having the strength to say 'no' and not being swayed by physical attraction is the number one way to be the father figure a woman may have been missing.
- 🔄 Beyond surface-level attraction, there is a deeper dynamic at play in relationships, where women seek a man who embodies the masculine qualities of a father figure.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script?
-The main theme of the video script is about the importance of being a strong, guiding figure in a woman's life, akin to the father she may not have had, in order to build a deep and lasting relationship.
What does the script suggest as the number one way to be the father that a woman never had?
-The script suggests that the number one way to be the father that a woman never had is to have the ability to tell her 'no' and to provide wisdom and guidance, rather than just trying to please her.
Why does the script emphasize the importance of being able to say 'no' to a woman?
-The script emphasizes the importance of being able to say 'no' because it demonstrates wisdom, strength, and the ability to provide guidance and protection, which are qualities that many women seek in a partner.
What is the script's comparison between what men and women typically desire in a partner?
-The script compares men's desire for unconditional love, often associated with their mothers, with women's desire for strength and security, typically associated with their fathers.
According to the script, why might a woman not have received the strength and security she desires from her father?
-A woman might not have received the strength and security from her father due to him being passive, not present, or not teaching her lessons, encouraging, inspiring wisdom, or showing her right from wrong.
What does the script mean by 'teaching' in the context of being the father figure in a woman's life?
-In the context of being the father figure, 'teaching' refers to imparting wisdom, providing guidance, setting boundaries, and helping her understand the consequences of her actions.
How does the script define 'wisdom' in the context of a father figure?
-The script defines 'wisdom' as the ability to make fair judgments, understand the consequences of actions, and guide a woman in making better decisions, especially when her emotions might lead her astray.
What is the significance of 'fairness' in the script's discussion about the father figure?
-The significance of 'fairness' is that the father figure should treat every circumstance and consequence equally, regardless of external factors, to demonstrate maturity and wisdom.
Why does the script mention that a woman might test the boundaries in a relationship?
-The script mentions that a woman might test boundaries to see if her partner can provide the strength and security she seeks, and to determine if he can resist using superficial attraction to make decisions.
What is the potential consequence if a man allows a woman to 'get away with' things due to her beauty, according to the script?
-If a man allows a woman to 'get away with' things due to her beauty, she may lose respect for him, leading to a loss of desire and potentially exiting the relationship.
How does the script relate the concept of being a father figure to the dating experience?
-The script relates the concept of being a father figure to the dating experience by suggesting that women subconsciously seek the strength, guidance, and wisdom in a partner that they might not have received from their own fathers.
Outlines
👨👧 Being the Father Figure She Never Had
In this paragraph, the speaker discusses the importance of being a significant and positive influence in a woman's life, akin to the father she may have never had. It emphasizes the need for men to provide strength, security, and wisdom, which are often sought but not always found in their own fathers. The speaker suggests that by being able to say 'no' and setting boundaries, a man can fulfill the role of a father figure, teaching life lessons and providing a sense of safety and security. This role is distinguished by the ability to make tough decisions based on wisdom rather than just trying to please or appease.
🚫 The Power of Saying No in Relationships
This paragraph delves into the concept of setting boundaries and the necessity of fairness when dealing with consequences in a relationship. It highlights that a woman's respect for a man is often tested by observing his reactions to her actions and his ability to enforce rules and fairness. The speaker argues that a man who is unable to resist the allure of a woman's beauty and continually gives in to her desires will eventually lose her respect and desire. The key takeaway is the importance of maintaining one's principles and demonstrating maturity by being able to say no, regardless of the situation, thus embodying the masculine ideal of a father figure that provides guidance and sets an example through wisdom and fairness.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Unconditional Love
💡Strength and Security
💡Father Figure
💡Boundaries
💡Wisdom
💡Discipline
💡Consequences
💡Respect
💡Masculinity
💡Spiritual Connection
Highlights
The video aims to teach how to be the father figure a woman may have never had in her life, to strengthen long-term relationships.
Men typically desire the unconditional love they received from their mothers, which sets their expectations in relationships.
Women often seek the strength and security from a father figure, which they might not have experienced in their own lives.
The importance of being able to say 'no' to a woman to establish a fatherly role in her life.
Many women have not received the guidance and wisdom from a father figure, leading to a void in their lives.
The role of a father is to teach and provide wisdom, which is essential in a woman's life for making better decisions.
Women subconsciously understand the importance of a father figure who can provide protection and security.
The comparison between men's desire for unconditional love and women's desire for strength and security.
The father figure's role in teaching right from wrong and providing spiritual guidance.
The importance of fairness in the father figure's approach to teaching and setting boundaries.
The analogy of a father treating every circumstance fairly, regardless of external achievements or failures.
The concept that actions have consequences, a lesson that a father figure should impart.
The challenge for men to maintain their boundaries and not be swayed by a woman's beauty or charm.
The potential for a woman to test boundaries in a relationship to gauge the level of masculinity in her partner.
The necessity for a man to demonstrate maturity and wisdom to be seen as a father figure in a woman's life.
The impact of a man's inability to say 'no' on the respect and desire a woman has for him in a relationship.
The deep spiritual connection that is sought beyond surface-level attraction in a relationship.
The leverage a woman may use, such as her sex appeal, to test a man's decision-making and fairness.
The potential for a woman to lose respect and desire for a man if he cannot maintain boundaries and fairness.
Transcripts
okay so today I'm going to explain
something a little bit more deep and
sentimental for you because I named this
video the number one way to be the
father that she never had now after
today's video is over be sure to go down
below and check out the gift that I made
for you I really think you're going to
love it now this is important because if
you're dating a woman long term you want
to do one specific thing and that is
actually have the ability to touch her
soul and her spirit in a positive way if
if you can do this it's going to be very
hard for her to leave you because this
goes far deeper than just good chemistry
or you know intimacy or sex or anything
like that so I'm going to show you the
number one way to be the father that she
probably never had and this is so that
way you can retain the relationships
that you're wanting most okay so here's
the comparison that I want to make for
you or that I want to make to you okay
there's a compar between what men
typically desire versus what women
typically desire so here's the
comparison okay men desire typically
okay what a man really craves or what a
man really thinks about as far as the
feminine ideal of what the woman in his
life was or should be or potentially
could be one day men desire the
unconditional love that they got
typically from their mothers so no
matter what okay a lot of men if you had
a hard day no matter how it was no
matter if you had anxiety no matter if
you had a problem that day no matter if
something wasn't going your way a lot of
times majority of mothers since they
love their children unconditionally
would always love their sons
unconditionally so what happens is that
that gets planted into the man's head as
what the feminine ideal was or should be
and then all of a sudden he goes out
into the dating game and he slowly
realizes that it is not like that women
have a very similar idea as well women
typically desire the strength and
security that comes from their dad or
their father okay now here's what I can
tell you not all or not a lot of women
actually obtained this okay there's some
women where maybe they had more of a
passive father or they had a father that
wasn't very present or they had a father
that never taught them lessons
encouraged inspired wisdom showed them
right from wrong okay I'm going to
explain why this is very important the
number one way to be the father that she
never had okay the number one way is to
have the ability to tell her no and I'm
going to explain why a large majority of
women never got this so majority of
women their father since often times he
was passive had no rules anything
goes and because that's his daughter his
entire goal was to always please her and
make sure that she felt good well the
problem is that what happens is when
women enter the real world or when they
see how dating is in real life a lot of
times they see that majority of men
behave this way and the problem with
that is deep down on a deep unconscious
or psychological level they all
understand that the Father Figure or the
element has to have a level of
protection or wisdom or Safety and
Security and a woman knows on a deep
down level that if you are passive or a
woman knows on a deep down level that if
you're constantly pleasing or trying to
please her she understands fundamentally
that you're not able to give this
experience or she understands
fundamentally that you're not able to
protect her in the ways whether it be
physically or whether it be spiritually
that she's looking for and a lot of
times she will pull away and she will
exit so you have to know this majority
of women never got this and I'm going to
explain why okay what we have to do is
we have to actually look at this the
number one way to be the father that she
never had is to be able to tell her no
and I'm going to explain why the reason
why is because the father's job the male
role or the male Dynamic that you're
setting okay the father's job is to
teach because the father holds the
wisdom the father holds the wisdom like
write that down on a sheet of paper if
you have to the father is the one who
holds the wisdom the father is the one
who has the spiritual lessons the father
is is the one who's able to have those
elements that she looks for when it
comes to strength because here's what I
can tell you women know on a deep down
level subconsciously that their emotions
guide them and their emotions will often
times cause them to make very poor
decisions this could include them going
and doing something that they shouldn't
this could include them dating the wrong
person this could include them making a
poor decision that leads them to indulge
in pleasure and then often times there
is negative consequences or repercussion
for it the father's job is who say no
and then have reasons why now here's
what I can tell you most men can't do
this because the woman's Beauty holds
too much power over them so the father's
job is to teach because the father has
the wisdom now since Dad treats every
circumstance fairly meaning let's say
the the dad has four
kids the dad does not treat one specific
kid as the favorite typically okay the
ideal concept of the masculine is that
it doesn't matter matter what the
circumstance is this is the right way to
do things versus the wrong ways to do
things so since the father optimizes for
what is the right way to do things the
right way to do things is by teaching
and showing and leading every
circumstance and handling every
circumstance fairly okay so dad treats
every circumstance fairly that means she
needs to see that actions have
consequences so let me give you an
example dad says no your curfew is at
this time you have to be home at this
time because it's not safe to be out
super late make sure that you're home at
this time and then what happens is she
goes to the house party anyways so then
Dad says this is a consequence and
you're grounded that is what she's
looking for as consequences which means
it doesn't matter that she got stray
days in school it doesn't matter that
she made honor role because she did
something that had a negative
consequence the father treats it fairly
that's what she's looking for because
that's called wisdom and that's called
maturity so she needs to see that
actions have consequences now it doesn't
matter if you're the actual father
meaning the father her or if you are
dating her and see that's why if a woman
is dating a guy that she really likes
what happens is whether it's inside or
out of the bedroom a lot of times she'll
end up calling him daddy what she's
going to do is she's going to test all
of these boundaries she's going to test
all of these boundaries in any way that
she can now here's what happens as she
tests these boundaries men who are
emasculated and weak for sex or her
beauty what happens is the man puts up
with
it and he continues to date her anyway
and then what happens is she leaves
because she sees that this man doesn't
have the level of masculinity that she's
looking for on a deep down soul level or
on a deep down spiritual level so this
is what you have to remember the number
one way to ensure that you were the
father that she never had is to have the
ability to say no so here's what I mean
when I say dad treats every circumstance
fairly I'm going to use an analogy if
you're dating a woman what she's going
to see is she's going to see if she can
test your boundaries and if she can get
away with certain things which means
what she's really doing is she's saying
this she's going to look at you on a
subconscious level and say I bet you I'm
so beautiful she's going to say I bet I
am so attractive to this man I'm going
to see what I can get away with and if
she can get away with it she loses
respect for you and if she loses respect
for you then there's no desire anymore
at all because she doesn't respect you
on a fundamental Man level the man to
woman dating experience or dating
Dynamic that she's looking for you have
to understand that Beyond surface level
attraction there's a whole element of
deep spiritual circumstances that have
to unfold so that way she looks at you
as a man who has the level of
masculinity that she actually wants so
always keep this in mind the number one
way to be the father that she never had
is to have the ability and the strength
to tell her no and that your beauty
doesn't hold weight over me because that
really is going to be the leverage that
she's going to try to play is seeing if
she can use her seduction and her sex
appeal
to cause you to make poor decisions on a
fairness level to see what she can get
away with and if she can get away with
it she's not going to like you anymore
and her desire will leave and she will
exit
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