O Real Motivo Porque Mulher Gosta de Zé Droguinha

Summary

In this video, Cauê explains why many women are attracted to men who seem rebellious or 'bad boys,' like the 'Zé droguinha' stereotype. He argues that women enjoy the emotional challenge these men present, as they are not overly available or sentimental. Additionally, these men show boldness and confidence, qualities women find appealing. Cauê emphasizes that a man doesn’t need to be a 'bad boy' to attract a woman, but should focus on developing emotional intelligence, taking initiative, and creating meaningful connections. He offers a special method to help men become more socially confident and appealing.

Takeaways

• 😀 Women are often attracted to a challenge, and 'bad boys' or 'Zé droguinha' type men present that challenge.
• 😀 A key reason women are drawn to these types of men is that they are not easily available or predictable.
• 😀 Men who constantly seek attention, flatter, or behave in overly sentimental ways do not create emotional intrigue for women.
• 😀 'Zé droguinha' type men are perceived as emotionally elusive, which creates a sense of mystery and excitement for women.
• 😀 Women like men with a sense of attitude and confidence, not those who act passively or shy away from taking action.
• 😀 Women value men who are independent and do not rely on others to express their interest (e.g., sending messages via a friend).
• 😀 These men know how to evoke emotions and provide excitement, which is why they often appeal to women more than 'nice guys'.
• 😀 The typical routine of a 'nice guy' is seen as boring and predictable, which contrasts with the more spontaneous and adventurous behavior of 'bad boys'.
• 😀 Understanding women's psychology is crucial for men who want to attract women; it's not just about following the same patterns or expecting the same behaviors.
• 😀 The video creator offers a method to help men develop social skills, including how to emotionally engage with women, with a link to a more detailed program.

Q & A

Why do some women prefer men who appear to be troublemakers or 'bad boys'?

Women are often attracted to challenges, and men who are perceived as troublemakers or 'bad boys' represent an emotional challenge. These men aren't always available or predictable, which makes them more intriguing compared to the predictable, overly attentive 'nice guys'.

What role does emotional engagement play in attracting women?

Emotional engagement is crucial because women are generally attracted to men who can trigger strong emotional reactions. Men who are emotionally distant or detached can appear more intriguing, while men who are overly sentimental or predictable do not invoke the same level of emotional response.

Is being a 'Zé droguinha' (a term for a troublemaker or rebellious person) necessary to attract women?

No, being a 'Zé droguinha' is not necessary to attract women. However, the characteristics associated with such individuals—like being a challenge, having attitude, and knowing how to engage emotionally—are traits that can attract women.

What do women look for in a man beyond physical appearance?

Women look for emotional connection, a sense of challenge, and attitude in a man. Men who can spark emotional reactions and maintain an aura of unpredictability are often more appealing than those who are constantly predictable and overly available.

Why is the concept of 'attitude' important for attraction?

Attitude refers to confidence, decisiveness, and assertiveness. Women tend to prefer men who take action and are not passive or overly deferential. A man with attitude demonstrates strength and self-assurance, which can be more attractive than someone who is constantly waiting for approval or validation.

How does a man’s lifestyle or routine impact his attractiveness?

A man who has a structured, predictable lifestyle can be seen as boring, while men who live outside the box or challenge societal norms can be seen as more interesting. The unpredictability and emotional intensity of their lives make them more engaging for women.

What is the 'emotional challenge' and why is it attractive?

An emotional challenge is when a man creates situations or displays behaviors that evoke strong feelings in a woman, whether it's intrigue, excitement, or even tension. This emotional unpredictability can be more captivating than a man who is constantly emotionally available or predictable.

Why do women dislike overly clingy or needy men?

Clingy or needy behavior often comes across as a lack of self-sufficiency and can be seen as unattractive. Women tend to prefer men who are independent and confident, and who do not constantly seek validation or attention.

How can men develop the qualities that attract women, based on the video?

Men can develop qualities like confidence, emotional intelligence, and assertiveness. They should focus on cultivating an aura of mystery and challenge, rather than being overly available or predictable. Developing a strong sense of self and emotional control is key to attracting women.

What does the speaker suggest for shy or timid men who struggle with attraction?

The speaker suggests that shy or timid men can improve their ability to attract women by learning how to generate emotional responses, improve their social skills, and gain confidence. The speaker offers a specific video resource to help men become more socially adept and successful in their interactions with women.