Why He’s Attractive And I’m Not

Summary

In this social experiment video, the host explores the science of attractiveness with a group of friends, including the 'most attractive man on Earth,' Jack Neil. They undergo various tests, including style makeovers, humor challenges, and height adjustments, to determine which factors significantly influence attractiveness. The video culminates in a party where the friends apply their newfound insights, revealing the complex interplay between physical appearance, confidence, and personality in social attraction.

Takeaways

• 😎 The video explores the concept of attractiveness and whether it can be scientifically improved.
• 👗 In the first experiment, a professional stylist is hired to enhance the style of the participants, except for Jack Neil, who remains unchanged.
• 📈 The style change leads to an increase in scores for the participants, but Jack Neil still outperforms them.
• 😂 The second experiment focuses on humor, with all participants, except Jack Neil, preparing jokes to test the impact of humor on attractiveness.
• 🏠 A party is organized to see if the improvements in style and humor translate to real-life social settings.
• 🌟 In a twist, Jack Neil's height is altered to be the shortest among the participants to test the effect of height on attractiveness.
• 🎤 The participants are instructed to talk about their occupations, with Jack Neil pretending to have a normal job while the others boast about their online fame.
• 🗣️ In the final round, the participants' voices are modulated to test the impact of personality on attractiveness without the influence of voice.
• 🤔 The video raises questions about the role of subconscious attraction and the difficulty in explaining why people are attracted to someone.
• 💔 Some participants express vulnerability and the emotional impact of rejection in their dating experiences.
• 🎉 The party serves as a real-life test of the lessons learned throughout the video, with some participants making meaningful connections.

Q & A

What is the main theme of the video script?

The main theme of the video script is exploring the factors that contribute to attractiveness, such as style, humor, height, occupation, and personality, through a series of experiments and social interactions.

What role does the professional stylist play in the video?

The professional stylist is hired to improve the appearance of the participants, except for Jack Neil, to test if an improved style can influence their attractiveness scores.

How does the video address the influence of humor on attractiveness?

The video tests the influence of humor by having the participants prepare jokes and using humor in their interactions with the girls, while Jack Neil remains 'stale' for comparison.

What twist is introduced in the mansion party scene?

The twist in the mansion party scene is that the participants are behind a black curtain and their voices are modulated to test if factors like height, when Jack Neil is made the shortest, significantly affect attractiveness.

What was the occupation twist in the experiment?

In the occupation twist, Jack Neil claims to have a normal job while the other participants talk about being big social media influencers to see if fame and perceived wealth affect their attractiveness ratings.

How does the video script incorporate a professional therapist's perspective?

The professional therapist, Aspen, provides insights into the science of attractiveness and discusses the psychological aspects of the participants' experiences and the outcomes of the experiments.

What is the significance of the Opera browser mention in the script?

The mention of the Opera browser is a sponsored segment within the video, highlighting its features like being safer, faster, having a built-in VPN, and an ad blocker, which is unrelated to the main theme of attractiveness.

What was the outcome of the height experiment?

The outcome of the height experiment showed that height was not as significant a factor as initially thought, with Jack Neil winning the round despite being the shortest.

How did the participants feel about the experience after the experiments?

The participants felt a mix of emotions, with some expressing pride for their efforts, others feeling disheartened by the constant comparison to Jack Neil, and some reflecting on their personal growth and learning experiences.

What was the final test at the party meant to determine?

The final test at the party was meant to determine if the lessons learned from the experiments about style, humor, height, occupation, and personality could be applied in a real-life social setting and affect the participants' attractiveness in person.

What insights did the participants gain from the video's experiments?

The participants gained insights into various aspects of attractiveness and how different factors can influence perceptions. They also learned about the importance of confidence and the potential impact of external factors like fame and occupation on attractiveness.

Outlines

00:00

😎 The Quest for Attractiveness: Style & Humor

The video script introduces an experiment to determine the factors that contribute to attractiveness. It features a comparison between an 'average guy' and a 'most attractive man,' Jack Neil. A professional stylist is hired to enhance the appearance of the average guys, while Jack remains unchanged. The first round tests the impact of style on attractiveness, with the girls unknowingly rating the guys' looks. The results show an improvement in the average guys' scores, but Jack still leads. The second round explores humor, with all participants, except Jack, preparing jokes. The twist reveals that humor significantly influences attractiveness, with Hudson, one of the average guys, winning this round. The video also sets up a party scenario where the guys will apply their learned skills to see if they can attract the girls in real life.

05:00

🏰 The Role of Height and Fame in Attractiveness

The script continues with an experiment altering the height of the participants, making Jack Neil the shortest, to determine the importance of height in attractiveness. The guys engage in conversations with the girls, who are unaware of the height change. Despite the change, Jack still wins the round, but Manny, another participant, places second, marking his best performance yet. In the next round, the script introduces a twist where the participants' occupations are manipulated: Jack claims to have a normal job, while the others boast about being social media influencers. The results indicate that fame and perceived wealth might influence attractiveness, as Manny wins this round, potentially due to the occupation revelation or a personal connection with one of the girls attending the party later.

10:02

🎭 The Power of Personality and Real-Life Attraction Test

The final part of the script focuses on the personality round, where the guys' voices are modulated to eliminate vocal attractiveness. They discuss various topics, from cheering up to romantic dates, to gauge the impact of personality on attractiveness. Jack Neil's confidence shines through, and he wins this round. The script concludes with a party where the guys have a chance to apply what they've learned about style, humor, height, fame, and personality in a real-life setting. The party serves as a test to see if the changes made during the experiment can actually improve their attractiveness in a social setting. Manny ends up connecting with a girl he had previously impressed, and the video ends with an open question about whether the tests provided valuable insights into attractiveness.

Keywords

💡Attractiveness

Attractiveness refers to the quality of being pleasing or appealing, often in a physical or aesthetic sense. In the video's theme, it is the central focus, as the participants aim to understand and potentially increase their levels of attractiveness. The script discusses various factors that may contribute to attractiveness, such as style, humor, and confidence, and how these factors are tested and rated by others.

💡Style

Style, in this context, pertains to the way a person dresses or presents themselves, which can significantly influence their perceived attractiveness. The video explores the impact of style on attractiveness by hiring a professional stylist to alter the participants' appearances, demonstrating that a well-styled appearance can positively affect how they are rated by others.

💡Humor

Humor is the quality of being amusing or funny, and it is tested as a factor in attractiveness within the video. Participants are encouraged to prepare jokes, and the script shows that humor can be a powerful tool in making an individual more attractive to others, as it can create a positive and enjoyable interaction.

💡Confidence

Confidence is a belief in one's own abilities, which can be displayed through body language, speech, and demeanor. The script highlights the importance of confidence in the context of attractiveness, suggesting that self-assured individuals may be perceived as more attractive because they project a positive self-image.

💡Experiment

An experiment, in this case, refers to the various tests and scenarios set up by the video creators to determine what factors contribute to attractiveness. The script outlines different experiments, such as changing style, humor, height, and occupation, to see how these variables affect the participants' attractiveness ratings.

💡Therapist

A therapist in the video is a professional who studies attractiveness and provides insights into the psychological aspects of what makes people more attractive. The therapist's role is to guide and explain the scientific approach to understanding attractiveness, as mentioned in the script when discussing the possibility of increasing scores through various factors.

💡Influencer

An influencer is someone who has the power to affect the opinions, attitudes, or behaviors of others, often due to their online presence or fame. In the script, the participants' occupation as influencers is manipulated to test whether fame and perceived success can impact their attractiveness ratings.

💡Height

Height is used as a variable in the video's experiment to explore its potential impact on attractiveness. The script describes an experiment where the tallest participant is made the shortest to see if height plays a significant role in how the participants are perceived by others.

💡Voice Modulator

A voice modulator is a device that alters the sound of a person's voice. In the final round of the experiment, the script mentions the use of a voice modulator to ensure that the participants' real voices do not influence the attractiveness ratings, allowing for a more controlled test of personality alone.

💡Party

The party in the script serves as the ultimate test of the lessons learned and the changes made by the participants throughout the video. It is a social setting where the participants can apply their enhanced skills and styles to see if they can improve their attractiveness in a real-life scenario.

💡Sponsorship

Sponsorship in this context refers to the support provided by a company, in this case, Opera, to fund the video's production. The script includes a mention of Opera as a sponsor, highlighting the relationship between the video creators and the company, and the promotional aspect of the video.

Highlights

The experiment aims to test if attractiveness can be scientifically improved.

A professional stylist is hired to enhance the appearance of the participants except for Jack Neil, who remains unchanged.

The first experiment suggests that style significantly influences attractiveness.

Humor is tested as a factor in attractiveness with participants preparing jokes.

The role of height in attractiveness is examined by making Jack Neil the shortest in a lineup.

Fame and occupation are tested to see if they impact attractiveness ratings.

A party is organized to test the real-life application of the skills learned during the experiment.

Voice modulation is used in the final round to test the impact of personality without the influence of voice.

The experiment includes a discussion with a therapist about the participants' experiences and feelings.

The video explores the idea that attractiveness is not solely based on physical appearance but also on other factors like style and humor.

Jack Neil, considered the most attractive, faces challenges when other factors are altered in the experiment.

The experiment shows that confidence can play a significant role in attractiveness, as seen in the personality round.

The video concludes with a party where the participants have a chance to apply what they've learned.

The experiment reveals that even with improved style and humor, some participants still struggle with confidence in social settings.

The video suggests that vulnerability and taking risks are important aspects of dating and attraction.

The final party scene indicates that the lessons from the experiment may have practical applications in social interactions.

Transcripts

this is the most attractive man on

planet Earth and this is me an average

guy and this is three more of my friends

getting raided on attractiveness by

these three random

girls by guys bye as you can imagine he

won and this is a professional therapist

who studies attractiveness I think

attractiveness is a science and I think

that we can increase your friends scores

so that by the end of the video the

girls will actually start rating them

higher than Jack Neil who's probably the

best looking man in the United States

but can science actually explain what

makes people more attractive today we're

finding out starting with style okay so

in the first experiment my friends will

be changing their style hired a

professional stylist to come in and make

all of them look better but Jack Neil

will be staying exactly the same I'm

actually so jealous of you and you look

great let's see how this changes things

in this round we'll see if my friend

scores get any closer to Jack Neil this

time to find out how much fashion

actually influences your attractiveness

she I love nourisher that's perfect for

you the girls have a list of regular

dating questions to pick from to ask the

guys but they don't realize how we've

changed their looks person number three

what are your thoughts on country music

country music I I love country music

what's your favorite song uh the new one

by uh Beyonce oh i s regardless of what

we're changing in each round we still

gave the guys the chance to try to RIS

number four what's your favorite

movie um notebook The Notebook is great

my favorite movie is Cars I love cars

actually I yeah I I think style goes a

really long way signals to a person

who's like a potential partner that you

care about your appearance you take that

extra time to do things but despite Us

increasing my friend's style it seemed

like at least in this round Jack was

still winning them over what's your

favorite book Orie I really like this

movie called A Clockwork Orange you kuri

yeah you a morning in person or night

off I'd love to be a morning person but

I'd say lately it's just been really

Thro off how about you mostly morning

gosh you I can change though these were

the average scores each of them got in

this round almost everyone's score went

up and Jack's score went down but still

won I didn't want my friends to hear

their scores if they didn't want to but

I really think they should do you guys

want to just pass them around wait first

first who won who won who won Jack one

you'll see why their scores are so

important in a bit luckily Styles is

just one of five factors we'll be

testing in this video that make up

attractiveness and next up we have humor

we told all the guys to prepare a bunch

of jokes for this round it'd be super

funny Jack Neil I told him just like be

normal be stale if

anything and just as a reminder this is

a blind stud so the girls have no idea

what it's being changed every round and

as these guys are getting raided I think

it'd be useful if I told you a little

bit about who they are guy number one if

you could meet anyone who's no longer

alive who would it be you know if you

weren't alive it would be you okay but

this is Manny he's most wellknown for

asking Olia Rodrigo to prom last summer

she said yes but that's unfortunately

over so he's looking for something new

on to person three have you ever felt

that you were in love with someone yeah

I think so I think so um oh no my my ax

this is menuel he's a YouTuber whose

biggest video is asking Jen Ortega on a

date it's easy to get him and Manny

confused since their names are both

technically menu well and they've both

asked out ex Disney Channel stars with

five letter first names they also live

together but they are different people

if you were to be canceled for anything

what would it be probably would be

something I said in this video I have a

question for you actually okay have you

ever seen Star Wars cuz Yoda only W for

me this is Hudson he's also a YouTuber

who's asked every other YouTuber on a

date for videos but he's never been on a

real one and these are some of my

closest friends tell me a joke are you a

hot dogs

fan that's the joke we have to answer

this question and Jack Neil's Jack Neil

he's that guy but for this round he's

being stale we'll see how that affects

the scores and this is me I've never had

a girlfriend and I'm really proud of my

friends for doing this because honestly

I don't think I could mentally handle

getting a two out of 10 or something

like that that would be crazy I'm always

kind of like trying to be funny like I'm

always making jokes I'm actually very of

the girls genuinely find that be more

attractive or not and ultimately here

were the scores for this round that's

right Hudson

won let's go let's go you got last place

this round clearly humor makes a huge

difference in

attractiveness but this is where we

introduced the twists of this video so

tonight we have rented out a mansion and

we're hosting a party where all the

girls from this video as well as a ton

of other girls I know he's on his phone

man what are you doing bro this fine I

don't even care he doesn't need to hear

about it they're going to a party

tonight with every girl that they know

that I know that they know they're all

going to be there and I want you to use

all the skills you learned today you can

wear all the clothes that the

professional stylist gave you and we're

going to see if all of this actually

applies in real life so I hope you've

been paying attention to your scor I

told you I was proud of my friends for

doing this but I feel bad hopefully by

the end of the day they will become

experts Jack Neil's invited too as long

as he doesn't talk to everyone at the

party okay for this round we're changing

height we didn't tell the girls why the

guys were behind a black curtain but in

reality we made Jack Neil the shortest

one so with the bottom half of their

bodies covered we're going to find out

does height actually matter that much

before we started the round I asked the

shortest guy in the group if he was

hopeful he'd have a chance this round oh

yeah I I mean it's been tough you know

it's been tough going against a really

uh you know a Blu dyed six foot guy uh

with uh nuu okay hly it's just like ah

I'm trying man what is your morning

routine like morning routine uh it's

waking up opening like the eyes would

you also walk me through the most

embarrassing thing that's happened to

you in the past two years embarrassing

thing it was oh I don't want to say this

oh yeah my my friend asked out Olivia

rrio give me your number we and he was

very embarrassed afterwards and um he

was very embarrassed about that mhm yeah

I would be cute be me thanks what's

interesting about this experiment is the

girls could make a special connection

with one of the guys they could skew the

results it would be hard to know whether

the connection the girls made with them

though was by the variable and change do

you think people are good at explaining

why they are attracted to someone if you

could repeat one day of your life over

and over and over again what would it be

it's going to sound a bit cheesy but I

mean I moved from Cuba to here and then

I spent like 3 years without seeing my

family so I went back I was a little bit

older and then I saw them for the first

time in a while and that was really cool

I feel like a lot of attraction to

subconscious you could see the height

being like a baseline Factor women

prefer men like around like 8 or 9 in

taller than they are oh that's

interesting what would you do

instinctively if someone hit on your

girlfriend I mean I don't know ideally

I'd be with like a really beautiful girl

like yourself who's like very used to

that and we' be would just happen all

the time so it just kind of like be like

laughable at that point like the

challenge of having Jack Neil being the

rard of Oz again was back but at least

he was short now which could affect the

score who is your celebrity crush when I

so when I was 13 on my Instagram page I

posted like ask me questions and one of

them was that question I said my biggest

celebrity crush is Ellen degenerous

because I thought it meant who's your

favorite

celebrity like his confidence is just

going up every yeah I know he's getting

way better at realistically celebrity

crush are you a celebrity no Hough the

guys had a good round in improving their

confidence here were their scores from

this round clearly height wasn't as big

of a factor as we thought Jack Neil won

but Manny got second place and this was

by far his best round but in this next

round we're getting deep all four of

these guys are YouTubers or Tik tokers

and they're all like slightly famous in

their own right and Jack Neil's actually

the most famous of all of them but in

this round he's going to say he has a

completely normal job while the other

three are going to talk about how

they're big influences so we'll see if

the fame and seemingly money is going to

affect how they're rated in this round

what do you think I think that it will

affect this round because I think that

women look for people that have money or

have good careers it shows that they

work hard and it shows that they're

going to be willing to take care of them

and pamper them and provide for them

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what I'm supposed to say but then they

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video and these are the scores for this

round this time Manny won I'm not sure

if it's because of the job thing or if

it's because the tall girl to the left

of him gave him a nine she's coming to

the party later so I'm sure he's hoping

he'll have the chance to talk to her

again we've saved the most important

round for last so for this test to make

it as even as possible the girls won't

even be hearing their real voices we're

not only having them behind a black Cur

they're also going to be speaking into a

voice modulor man one what's something

that always cheers you up when you're

feeling down uh yeah so definitely for

me definitely spending time with family

I have a theory that Jack Neil could

still win the personality round because

he is the most confident in general

because he goodl looking what's your

idea of like the most romantic date

what's your favorite country mine yeah

you know I like to REM Italy we get flat

of Italy get a j probably get some pasta

some spaghetti the reason too for this

round is cuz we're not changing anything

about what they say they're really all

getting to try their absolute best you

see I'm something of a magician inventor

and chocolate maker I think I have the

phobia where it's like a lot of dots in

like an object what is your guilty

pleasure TV show I love watching Jesse

from back in the day it like brings me

back to my childhood but it's not

diagnosed by doctor I just think I have

it so I probably don't what are you most

thankful for probably this conversation

right now kind of like a lot of rocks or

like octopuses and like those those type

of things I think I have it I I don't

know and these are the scores from this

round Jack Neil's confidence won but

before we all went to the party I asked

Aspen our therapist to talk to the guys

about how it went it's like some things

that I do are so like Obsession oriented

and like so uh

single like like laser focus mhm that I

I sometimes find it hard to even talk to

people about that because it's like how

do I even tell someone that like I

dedicate everything to whatever I have

in front of you how do you feel about

dating like just as a whole um I'm not

that interested just generally I don't

know I did this video for fun I was

trying but then like I I just gave up so

the problem is is like no girl has shown

so far that like like they want me you

know it's always been like the reverse

just like I want her and like she

doesn't give me the the same like energy

that you give things that you're looking

for in someone else things

valid and Le to validate if

I'm I'm know whatever I'm yeah I think I

was just going tired of like I'm watch

three messages last year like hey you're

such a great person I just don't see you

as a friend or more than a friend it

sounds like that like those situations

happening has like made you want to like

kind of like take a step back and like

maybe put up some walls yes and I think

that's so normal and I think like taking

risk in being vulnerable like you didn't

those situations like that's a good

thing let's say a girl here like is

interested in me I I wouldn't be able to

tell because like I just assume that

they're not interested in it's like oh

okay well just no girls like every woman

yeah but the guys all had one more

chance at the party I'm on my way to the

party right now I'm 12 minutes away I'm

not going to lie I'm a little bit

frazzled after everything that my

friends have gone through today they've

learned so much I've learned so much

this has been incredibly educational but

there's only one way to put it to the

test and it's at this party a party with

the soul purpose of testing my and my

friends Riz what could possibly go wrong

nice nice cool hey by the way are you uh

are Yoda are wait are you from Star Wars

cuz cuz Yoda only won for me yeah how do

you um are you single your face is very

symmetrical I'm not sure if anyone has

told you I'm very glad that you're here

to be honest with you cuz I was I was

looking I was I was looking forward for

you to being here Manny ended up talking

to her all night he didn't know it yet

but he'd actually end up hanging out

with this girl afterwards you won let

show any pictures of it but all I can

say is they're talking the question of

the story is do you think that all of

these tests actually taught you anything

about did no not at all I'm happy for

him and I hope it goes well subscribe if

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